Relationships are a wonderful yet differcult thing.
You have not just yourself to consider but another.
Yet you don't have just someone else to consider you have yourself aswell.
They cone in lots of shapes and forms. I'll let you throw the examples.
They require a lot of work, inside and out.
Lots of love, friendship, work and support. They need the fudimentals for sustainability. Inderpendents,Interdependents.
One can think the wrong and lose all others can think to high and have to much.
The mind can create wonderful yet terible affects on it. The thought of one wrong action can lead into a spiral. A thought not even in exsistance yet.
This can change everthing.
But the now, can prove alot.
Can balance.
Can Love unconditional.
Can help in the moment.
Because in the end, that is all that matters.
Dont hold anything against them.
Love them for who they are.
Listen and appreciate them.
We will always think things we don't want to happen and we shall always fail to look at ourselves and take the blame or lower the ego at times.
Be mature, be patient, be realistic
Love your lover. Work together. Talk like friends.
Because they are your companions.
And if that ain't happening...
Then they ain't the one.
Let go and move on.
Until your balanced. Or close to, them your relationship, I believe. Wont bloom into its full potential.
And tell them you love them every now and then.
Create what you both want
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